Ask someone about their hobby and listen

Invite a person to tell you about something they love doing.

Why it helps

People light up when they talk about their passions. Your attention makes them feel interesting and valued.

How to do it

1. Choose someone with a hobby you know little about.
2. Ask what they enjoy about it.
3. Ask one more question about what they said.

Make it easier

Ask what they've been up to lately.

Make it harder

Ask to try it with them.